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Without these 5 skills you are most likely damaging your child for life!

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Learn the 5 skills that every intelligent parent should know for how to:

  • get instant cooperation giving yourself more time.
  • discipline without the guilt and threats of yelling and shouting
  • feel confident and great that have done your best as a parent.

Have you ever asked yourself these questions?

  • have you ever wondered if the way you are parenting your child could be damaging them?
  • have you ever wished you knew what you may be doing wrong and wished that someone had taught you on how to be a great parent?
  • have you ever lain in bed wondering if what you said to your child that afternoon was going to impact their confidence for the future?
  • have you ever wished you were given a simple manual for how to raise your child without having to read a whole range of 300 page psychology books?
  • have you ever yelled at your child feeling guilty afterwards for how this impacted them?
  • Have you ever wanted to scream in frustration at not knowing what to do to get your child to cooperate?
  • Have you ever felt that sense of hopelessness in knowing that there must be another way to discipline but you just don't know it at the moment?

It is not your fault and you are not alone.  We have never been taught this.  For most parents, we bring up our children with no clear intelligent insights nor skills. Our parents never taught us how to parent.

As a school principal, I had to find ways to control these out of control children. The traditional techniques did not work. Then I had my breakthrough that led me to start a new school with a new educational approach and get results that I always knew were possible. Then the parents said, "Please share with us these skills that we can see are transforming our children from day to day." And from that moment we started  developing the trainings so that today, you can access them too. Read what happened on the right hand side of this page.  

The Biggest Mistake Parents Make and how to solve it.

Most parents think that getting cooperation is about making sure your child knows you are the authority. But actually truly successful and intelligent cooperation comes from understanding that there is a power struggle as a RESULT of  you being the authority. 

So learning some simple and incredibly clever skills in how to decrease the power struggle will exponentially decrease your child's resistance to you being the authority, and increase the cooperation in your home. You can quickly learn how to unlock that power struggle and thereby get your child to cooperate quickly and simply, without resentment.

Take this intelligent skill as an example.
You are wanting your child to pack away their toys after they have played with them. This is how we usually get them to do so:

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But that technique uses a THREAT and makes the child FEAR the parent. Therefore this technique is based in negative communication.

So try this instead:

Set the boundary, (ie it's time to pack away now), and then give empowering choices within that boundary.

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By setting the boundary of 'packing away' the child gets that this is what is needed to be done. By giving choices within the boundary, your child feels a degree of autonomy because you are not just telling them what to do, but giving them a sense of empowerment in choosing where to start. Nearly all children therefore spend time choosing, opposed to trying to negotiate the actual boundary.

But this is where I say we use intelligent skills.

Some children still do not want to be just given two of YOUR choices. That still evokes the power struggle. So here is what you do to resolve that.
Set the boundary, and give choices within the boundary, with at least one of the choices being one they can create.

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When a child comes up with their OWN choices, they will be willing to follow through on that. You win, and so do they! 
That is intelligent parenting.

The e-book is FILLED with intelligent skills and solutions like this one. So here are the befits of the book and how you will learn this step by step.

What are the benefits of the book and the free skill integration  programme and how does it work?

•    How to instantly focus your child on what needs to be done in a way that avoids them resenting you for asking them (especially things like packing away, cleaning up etc)
•    Find out why your child sometimes fights with you and what to do that will end it with you both smiling instantly.
•    learn which words you are currently using that provoke a fight, and which ones you can use to get them to listen to you straight away (for example the difference between the words "But" and "at the same time")
•    learn how to avoid the negative techniques which cause guilt and bad feelings in your child, thereby damaging their self esteem.

The next biggest mistake parents make:

The next biggest mistake a parent can make is to think that the problems and challenges they are facing CAN ONLY BE RESOLVED with complex and psychological skills. They therefore give up searching for the simple and intelligent ones.

The ONE and ONLY reason you still have that problem you do is because you just haven't found the solution yet. Whether you believe there is a solution, or whether you believe there isn't one, either way you're right. And if you believe there is a solution, you will keep searching for it and then find it. Otherwise you will keep doing what you have always done, hoping that the problem with your child will change, somehow, sometime, and not because you did something empowering.

Who needs this book and programme?

•    If you are the kind of parent who wants to get cooperation with respect, then this is your answer.
•    If you are looking to building your child's self esteem consciously then you will find this so insightful.
•    If you are an intelligent person and LOVE making things work because YOU DID something, this book will EXCITE you.
•    If you wish to know how to discipline with care, respect and intelligence, then you will LOVE this book.
•    But if you feel that your child is the problem, or that there is not much point in learning new skills, THEN THIS IS NOT FOR YOU.

So you have to get this book immediately to avoid using ignorant skills that will risk damaging your child's self esteem!

 addtocartcards What makes this book different to others out there?

•    the skill integration programme gives you a further 2 months ongoing support, insights and reminders.
•    most books just tell you what to do. This one also tells you HOW to do it.
•    this book gives you insights into why you are not getting the results you want while most programmes just say "that is just the way life is".
•    we use multi-media presentations to make sure you learn this at a deep level (video, text, audio and e-mail)

This is why I wrote the book.

I want to support you in being the best parent you can be. And I want to make it as easy and effortless as possible. It took me years to figure out what works, and then many more years to figure out how to make this work for other parents. That is why you are not only going to get the book, but also the following bonuses:

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The e-book and the follow up skill integration programme (which is included in the package) have been carefully designed to give you centuries of wisdom, insight and tested psychological theory in as little time as possible. It will leap frog your own emotional intelligence and more importantly support you in CREATING the flow in your family home. Yes, that's right, YOU CREATING it. You no longer have to leave it up to CHANCE and LUCK to have that amazing happy flow in your family home

The package includes the following (instead of $99 you only pay $27):

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Cost $29: Your E-book with over 70 pages, 51 cartoons showing the skills in action, examples of the skills across all the ages, advice on how to best learn this skill, what you may be doing incorrectly if you are not getting the results as promised.


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Cost $25: Your Skill Integration Programme (S.I.P.): this is a 90 day support programme that reminds you of what you have read and learnt, keeping your new skills in the forefront of your awareness. In this way, you will be able to integrate and implement the skills to get the results you are wanting. See a sample reminder here.


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Cost $35: Your 6 Video Clip download: An hour video workshop session explaining the skills in a lot more detail. And click here to see a list of all 29 videos included in this bundle



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Cost $10: CD Mp3 download: you can listen to the workshop session while driving in your car, or just lying down on your bed, letting depth of the skills become part of your natural style of communicating.

 

 

addtocartcardsOk, i get it. I want to download this package right away and get all the bonuses as  well

So for the price of  one meal at a restaurant, or a couple of cups of coffee with friends, you can get instant access to intelligent skills, and confident guilt free parenting. 

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My Personal 100% money back Guarantee. No risk for you.

I am also so confident that you will get great results, that i am willing to offer you your full money back if you are not 100% satisfied with what you received.

Without these skills, you will most likely be damaging your child's self esteem. And this also means their school work, their friendships and their future success (have you heard your child talk in their sleep and you can see the stress and tension they often have to work through?)

It doesn't have to be that way, and you can MAKE IT HAPPEN by not leaving it up to chance. Your decisions today make tomorrow different from what it would have been. Your decsions today will influence your child's happiness whether you understand how, or not.

Make it count so you can look them in the eye and say, "My gift of love to you is that I chose to be the best parent I could be so that you could be the best person you could ever be."

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PS. Remember, there is no risk. I will give you 100% of your money back if you are not completely satisfied.

•    Get instant cooperation and FLOW in the home
•    see those happy smiles because of YOUR skills
•    know you gave them the best skills so they could be the best person they could be.

Still not sure yet?

There will be two main reasons as to why you may still be uncertain.

  1. I don't have the money for this
  2. I don't have the time, even though I wish I did

But I don't have money for the book:
Look, you may be thinking right now that you can't afford this. I get it. We all have troubles with money at times but the question you really want to be asking yourself is how much is my child's well being and happiness worth to me?

For the price of a couple of cups of coffee you are going to save your child from the pain and damage of your threats, manipulation and guilt trips. For the price of one meal at a restaurant you will be saving your child from turning into the rebellious teenage that makes crazy and irresponsible decisions that lead them into trouble.

I don't have the time to read and learn new skills:
Another thing I hear from many parents is, "I just don't have enough time in the day between my work, picking up the kids, doing extra murals and making supper and putting them to bed. Where am I going to get time?

And I completely get it. We all live in a busy world with full days but again the question you need to ask is what is the most important to you? When you are lying on your death bed one day, what will you wish you had done more of, watch TV, worked harder or spent quality time with your children?

Plus, once you have learnt and integrated these skills, you will now have so much more FREE TIME and ENERGY because you now KNOW how to get get what you need quickly and effortlessly.

So it's time to separate yourselves from the other 1% of parents out there and be in action. It is our job as parents to do the best we can for our children. They are relying on us to create an environment for them that is nurturing and empowering.

And if you feel that deep down you know that you can do a little better, no matter what, then you owe them that. I want to make sure you can look your child in the eye and confidently say that you did everything you could to give them the best chance of success in life.

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Yes please, add this to my cart, I want it now

Actually, I am not convinced so I would prefer to start with the FREE 3 top skills package to check it out first. So click here to go there